Domestic Violence

 

INDEX

  1. Va. Code 18.2-57.2 - Assault & Battery against a family or household member
  2. Va. Code 16.1-228 - Definition of a "family or household member"
  3. Va. Code 16.1-253.4 - Emergency Protective Order
  4. Why Learn about Protective Orders
  5. Learn to Recognize Abuse
  6. False Hopes Can Be Dangerous
  7. What Can A Protective Order Do?
  8. If Children Are Involved
  9. A Protective Order Can't Guarantee Safety
  10. Build Your Case
  11. How To Request a Protective Order
  12. Do Your Part
  13. Plan For Your Safety
  14. Some Questions & Answers
  15. Resources Available

 This guide is an informational tool. It does not supercede the Code of Virginia, Virginia Administrative Code or any other statute. Click here to go to the Virginia Domestic Violence Code on the Web.


I. ASSAULT & BATTERY AGAINST A FAMILY OR HOUSEHOLD MEMBER - VA. CODE 18.2-57.2?.

18.2-57.2 - Code of Virginia, Assault & Battery against a family or household member

A.  Any person who commits an assault and battery against a family or household member shall be guilty of a Class 1 Misdemeanor.

B.  On a third or subsequent conviction for assault and battery against a family or household member, where it is alleged in the warrant, information, or indictment on which a person is convicted that (i) such person has been previously convicted twice of assault and battery against a family or household member, or of a similar offense under the law of any other jurisdiction, within ten years of the third or subsequent offense, within ten years of the third or subsequent offense, and (ii) each such assault or battery occurred on different dates, such person shall be guilty of a Class 6 felony.

C. Whenever a warrant for a violation of this section is issued, the magistrate shall issue an emergency protective order as authorized by 16.1-253.4, except if the defendant is a minor, an emergency protective order shall not be required.

D.  The definition of "family or household member" in 16.1-228 applies to this section.

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II. DEFINITION OF A FAMILY OR HOUSEHOLD MEMBER - VA. CODE 16.1-228

"Family or Household member" as taken from Virginia Code 16.1-228

Means (i) the person's spouse, whether or not  he or she resides in the same home with the person, (ii) the person's former spouse, whether or not he or she resides in the same home with the person, (iii) the person's parents, stepparents, children, stepchildren, brothers, sisters, grandparents and grandchildren, regardless of the person, (iv) the person's mother-in-law, fathers-in-law, son-in-laws, daughters-in-law, brothers-in-laws and sister-in-laws who reside in the same home with the person, (v) any individual who has a child in common with the person, whether or not the person and that individual have been married or have resided together at any time, or (vi) any individual who cohabits or who, within the previous twelve months, cohabited with the person, and any children of either of them residing in the same home with the person.

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III. WHAT IS AN EMERGENCY PROTECTION ORDER - VA. CODE 16.1-253.4?.

Emergency Protective Order - Virginia Code 16.1-253.4

It's a order issued by a magistrate or judge, to help you protect yourself from someone who is abusing or harassing you. Any adult may petition a magistrate or judge for an "Emergency Protective Order" if a warrant in violation of 18.2-57.2 has been issued and there is probable danger of further acts of family abuse against a family or household member by the respondent or reasonable grounds exist to believe that the respondent has committed family abuse and there is probable danger of a further such offense against a family or household member the the respondent.  An emergency protective order shall expire 72 hours after issuance. If the 72 hours is not in session, the emergency protective order shall be extended until 5 p.m. of the next business day that the juvenile and domestic relations district court is in session.

A.  PROTECTION ORDERS CAN HELP:

  • SET LIMITS - For example, it can require the abuser to keep away from you, your family members and your home.
  • SEND A STRONG MESSAGE - Getting a protection order lets the abuser know you won't put up with abusive behavior.

B.  PRELIMINARY PROTECTIVE ORDER: If a family or household member requires a protection longer than that granted by the Emergency Protective Order, they may petition the court for a Preliminary Protective Order under Virginia Code 16.1-253 or16.1-253.1.

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IV.  WHY LEARN ABOUT EMERGENCY PROTECTIVE ORDERS (EP0)?

Because they can be useful tools for ending - or preventing -abuse.

A. Abuse Can Take A Terrible Toll On Your:

  • SELF-ESTEEM - Abuse can make it hard for you to feel good about yourself. you may even come to believe that you deserve the mistreatment --that's never true!
  • HEALTH - Physical abuse can lead to serious injury --or death. But any kind of abuse creates emotional stress, which can damage health in many ways.
  • LIFE - Living with abuse -- or the threat of abuse -- can be a nightmare for you and your whole family.
  • CHILDREN'S FUTURE - Living in an abusive household makes a child more likely to continue the pattern of abuse --either as victim or abuser.

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V.  LEARN TO RECOGNIZE ABUSE

The first step to getting a protection order is deciding whether you need one.

A. PHYSICAL ABUSE and the fear it creates can effect every aspect of a woman's life. Physical abuse includes:

  • Hitting
  • Using a weapon
  • Shoving
  • Twisting an arm
  • Choking
  • Holding a woman against her will

B. EMOTIONAL ABUSE may be more difficult to recognize than physical abuse, but emotional abuse is just as serious. Emotional abuse includes:

  • Making threats.
  • Humiliating a woman by putting her down, calling her names, telling her she's selfish, not good enough, etc.
  • Taking or destroying a woman's personal property.
  • Forbidding her to leave the house or see friend.

C. SEXUAL ABUSE can involve a female of any age -- single or married. It can include:

  • Rape (sex forced on a person, whether or not the 2 people are partners)
  • Pressuring a person to have sex.
  • Making comments or behaving in ways that make a woman feel like a sexual object.

D. STALKING is a pattern of harassing a woman. In Virginia, stalking is a crime under Virginia Code 18.2-60.3.

It can involve:

  • Following a woman in public.
  • Making threats over the phone.
  • Calling repeatedly or at inappropriate times (the middle of the night, for example)
  • "Staking out" a woman's home or workplace. In many cases, a woman who is being stalked is in great danger. Stalking often leads to a violent crime.

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VI. FALSE HOPES CAN BE DANGEROUS

A woman who believes the abuse will stop by itself or become less frequent is putting herself at risk. The abuser may apologize and promise it won't happen again, but in most cases the abuse continues and even gets worse.

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VII. WHAT CAN A PROTECTION ORDER DO?

Every state is different, but in many places a protection order can require an abuser to:

  • STAY AWAY FROM YOU at home, at work and anywhere you go. A protection order can also prohibit the abuser from contacting you by telephone or mail.
  • MOVE OUT  if the two of you live together, whether as partners or just house mates.
  • GET INTO A COUNSELING PROGRAM that focuses on battering, substance abuse or both, if appropriate.

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VIII. IF CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED, A PROTECTION ORDER MAY ALSO

  • GIVE YOU TEMPORARY CUSTODY - This generally lasts during the period that the Emergency Protective Order is in effect. You may petition for a Preliminary Protective Order if you feel that you or your family members are in danger of family abuse for a longer period of time.

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IX. BUT A PROTECTION ORDER CAN'T GUARANTEE YOUR SAFETY

An abuser can be arrested for violating the order, but it's not always possible to prevent a violation.

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X. BUILD YOUR CASE - It may help you in court, if you decide to apply for a protection order.

  • NOTIFY THE POLICE - If possible, call the police during an incident of abuse or immediately afterward. The sooner you notify them, the stronger your case will be if you go to court. Get the responding officers' names.
  • GATHER EVIDENCE - This will also help to make your case stronger. Try to:

1. Have a friend to take photographs of your injuries right after an incident of physical abuse -- or ask the police to do it. Be sure to note the time and date the photos were taken.

2. Save torn or bloody clothing and anything else that could serve as evidence of abuse.

3. Get the names, addresses, telephone number of witnesses, if any.

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XI. HOW TO APPLY FOR A PROTECTION ORDER

  • FIRST, GET ADVICE - Talk to the police or call a local women's shelter. Find out:

1. What a  Emergency Protective Order can and can't do for you.

2. What procedure to follow for getting a protection order in your area.

3. Contact the magistrate through your local Police or Sheriff's office.

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XII. DO YOUR PART

To see that the protection order works. Enforcing a protection order is a team effort.

Remember To:

  • REPORT ANY VIOLATION OF THE ORDER - to the police immediately. If you don't take the order seriously, the police or court may not either.
  • CARRY YOUR PROTECTION ORDER WITH YOU at all times. The police will be more likely to make an arrest if they see that a protective order is in effect and has been violated.
  • AVOID MAKING DELIBERATE CONTACT with the abuser. A protectionive order tells the abuser to stay away from you, but you're expected to live by the "no contact" terms, too.

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XIII. PLAN FOR YOUR SAFETY

Remember -- a protective order is only a piece of paper. Take other steps to protect yourself.

If You Don't Have A Protection Order:

  • PLAN FOR A QUICK ESCAPE - Going to a woman's shelter or the home of family or friends may be the first step in escaping an abusive situation.

Try To:

1. Pack a suitcase, and leave it with a friend or neighbor.

2. Hide an extra set of car keys.

3. Put aside emergency money and any important papers you'll need.

4. Plan where to go and how to get there, at any time of the day or night.

EVEN IF YOU DO HAVE A PROTECTION ORDER, IT'S A GOOD IDEA TO:

  • KEEP EMERGENCY NUMBERS HANDY - Make sure you have numbers for:

1. The Police

2. An Ambulance

3. A battered spouse's hotline

  • INSTALL SECURE LOCKS ON DOORS AND WINDOWS - Keep your house locked at all times, and consider installing a peephole in your front door. If possible don't let the abuser in.

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XIV. SOME QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

  • WHO CAN FILE FOR A PROTECTION ORDER? - Each state has its own rules. Depending on where you live, you may be eligible for a protective order even if:

1. You're not married to the abuser

2. You don't live with the abuser

3. Your partner is a woman

4. The abuser is your own child.

  • WOULD IT HELP TO GET A LAWYER? Getting legal counsel is a good idea, but it doesn't necessarily mean hiring a lawyer. Women's shelters often have legal advocates who can answer questions and even go to court with you. If you decide to find a lawyer, look for one with experience in family law.
  • DOES IT COST ANYTHING TO FILE?

There is no cost to request a Emergency Protective Order from the magistrate.

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VI. LOCAL RESOURCES & ASSISTANCE

EMERGENCY - "Dial 9-1-1"

NON EMERGENCY TELEPHONE NUMBERS:

  • Covington Police Department - (540) 962-6333
  • Alleghany County Sheriff's Office - (540) 965-1770
  • Clifton Forge Police Department - (540) 863-2513
  • Virginia State Police - (540) 863-4413

SHELTERS/HOUSING

  • Safe Homes - (540) 965-3237
  • Victim Witness Program Coordinator - (540) 540-965-6366

LEGAL

  • Alleghany County Commonwealth Attorney - (540) 965-1740

 

 

National Domestic Violence/Abuse Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE
1-800-799-7233

1-800-787-3224 TDD 24-hour-a-day hotline staffed by trained counselors ready to provide immediate crisis intervention assistance to those in need. Callers can be connected directly to help in their communities, including emergency services and shelters as well as receive information and referrals, counseling and assistance in reporting abuse. This is a vital lifeline to anyone - man, woman or child - who is a survivor of domestic violence, or who suspects that someone they know may be the victim of abuse. Calls to the hotline are confidential, and callers may remain anonymous if they wish.

 

Related Links

American Bar Association of Domestic Violence http://www.abanet.org/domviol/home.html
Office on Violence Against Women http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/
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